Lex Adams - What makes me tick?
This lifestyle has brought me successes as well as failures, but each experience has lead me to a better understanding of who it was that I really wanted to be within myself. I am reliable, reasonable, intelligent and an individual most feel comfortable with. I am energetic, respectable, self-sufficient, and have a passion for this lifestyle. I have worked diligently molding my character and although not perfect, I believe I have learned my lessons well and am now Master of myself...
I am a fair and understanding dominant, but along with that I am also firm. I enjoy the BDSM lifestyle and all that it has given to me. I like helping those that wish to learn and grow within themselves, providing an outlet for them to experience the fulfillment of their desires.
I design and custom create a variety of lifestyle leatherwork, furniture and other equipment.
I hold workshops and training sessions and provide an outlet for those wishing to express themselves within comfortable and safe surroundings.
How I identify myself:
I see myself as a Dominant with a sensual if somewhat sadistic streak. I enjoy both D/s dynamics. But pain-sensation play, in and of itself is only play to me. I am polyamorous by nature although I don't actively seek out multiple partners if it happens it happens and depends entirely on the dynamic of those involved.
My Interests and Experience Incudes:
When I am looking for a submissive female for a power-exchange relationship. Ultimately, I seek a total power exchange, but it is my feeling that such relationships should not be entered into casually so I insist on progressing at a pace that is comfortable for all involved. Ideally, I would prefer someone who has at least some real time experience and someone who understands the challenges, responsibilities and rewards of real life ownership. That said, I am also very willing to assist someone that is exploring themselves and the desires they feel.
Physical appearance is not very important to me, Age and education is not a contributing factor. A genuine desire to serve and a willingness to learn and grow is. Those that wish to explore their desires are welcome, providing that exploration is honest and with sincerity.
What I do not negotiate on:
I am not personally interested in men(I am hetro-sexual).
I am not interested in cyber or phone relationships.
I do not cyber or send photos containing pornography over the internet.
What I expect in a submissive:
I am not seeking a "do me" girl and she needs to realize that a Dom is not there to please her or to make her every fantasy a reality. She needs to have a true desire to serve and to gain the approval of a sincere man who she can respect and trust. She needs to be a giver, not a taker. That in giving she will also recieve. She needs to understand that real life service involves real work and submission needs to be firmly rooted in that reality.
As a submissive, she should gain pleasure from pleasing her Dominant. She should not be one to do something merely for the show of it or in order to get attention from others. Don't be a drama queen. Don't be an attention-seeking black hole that will drain me of life. Have the ability to integrate a power-exchange relationship with vanilla life.
I want a submissive flexible in her preferences.
"Okay, I don't mean to come across like I am looking for a perfect person or anything. I'm not!!! I will consider training or advising any that genuinely want assistance or advice. I don't want you to think I'm just going to lay down a bunch of demands without expecting to give, either."
What I have to offer:
I have much to offer and much to bring to a relationship. I am a good listener and do not expect my girl to be invulnerable to what happens in real life. I am nurturing and stabilizing, functioning as a friend as well as a dominant. With patience I guide and teach my submissive to be everything she can be! I am usually active in my local community.
My feelings on negotiation and the "Safe Sane Consensual" creedo are somewhat non-mainstream. By no stretch of the imagination could they be called Politically Correct. I am turned off by over-negotiation and am more comfortable with the phrase "Risk Aware".
Certified:
Eclectic Electric Certified Master Violet Wand Instructor.
Absolutely no kids (minors).
Absolutely no activity with non-consenting persons.
Absolutely no scat.
No play that results in or puts anyone at risk of serious bodily harm.
No play that requires a trip to casualty.
No play that results in the need to be on long term medication.
No broken bones, amputations and internal injuries.
The vanilla me:
I am opinionated, independent, flexible and emotionally stable.
I don't have much emotional baggage and have a healthy attitude about what I do carry around with me.
I am well traveled and my life has been extremely interesting and rich in experience thus far.
I can size up an atmosphere quickly and fit in just about anywhere.
I am extremely flexible, adaptable and am an incorrigible optimist.
I base my value system on logic and empathy.
I have a good head on my shoulders and am good at solving problems.
There is no place for religion in my life, but I never forget the human component and am an extremely spiritual man.
My basic tenant in dealing with others is to treat them the way I would want to be treated.
I have an extremely dry and sharp sense of humor. What would life be without laughter?
There is always more to discover and learn. Want to know more ?
I guess you will just need to find out for yourself.
Should you be interested in anything on these pages but want further information then please feel free to contact me. I am very approachable and I am prepared to answer your enquiries in an open and honest way, assisting where I can. I enjoy meeting and sharing with people so don't be shy. Remember, we were all new to this lifestyle at some time and all of us are still exploring ourselves as we travel our own path.
Be well, be safe and enjoy.
Lex Adams
I am a fair and understanding dominant, but along with that I am also firm. I enjoy the BDSM lifestyle and all that it has given to me. I like helping those that wish to learn and grow within themselves, providing an outlet for them to experience the fulfillment of their desires.
I design and custom create a variety of lifestyle leatherwork, furniture and other equipment.
I hold workshops and training sessions and provide an outlet for those wishing to express themselves within comfortable and safe surroundings.
How I identify myself:
I see myself as a Dominant with a sensual if somewhat sadistic streak. I enjoy both D/s dynamics. But pain-sensation play, in and of itself is only play to me. I am polyamorous by nature although I don't actively seek out multiple partners if it happens it happens and depends entirely on the dynamic of those involved.
My Interests and Experience Incudes:
I enjoy most kinds of play and within my playroom the possible scenarios are unlimited. I am very experienced with single tail whips and have a fondness for them. I enjoy electro play a great deal and am somewhat of a Daddy Dom. I have a particular fondness for rope and good bondage. I like a variety of play and tend to get bored repeating things too much, so I enjoy being creative. One scene is never quite like another, keeps it all interesting. I find mental domination is where it's at for me and here role play comes in it's own.
What I look for in a submissive:When I am looking for a submissive female for a power-exchange relationship. Ultimately, I seek a total power exchange, but it is my feeling that such relationships should not be entered into casually so I insist on progressing at a pace that is comfortable for all involved. Ideally, I would prefer someone who has at least some real time experience and someone who understands the challenges, responsibilities and rewards of real life ownership. That said, I am also very willing to assist someone that is exploring themselves and the desires they feel.
Physical appearance is not very important to me, Age and education is not a contributing factor. A genuine desire to serve and a willingness to learn and grow is. Those that wish to explore their desires are welcome, providing that exploration is honest and with sincerity.
What I do not negotiate on:
I am not personally interested in men(I am hetro-sexual).
I am not interested in cyber or phone relationships.
I do not cyber or send photos containing pornography over the internet.
What I expect in a submissive:
I am not seeking a "do me" girl and she needs to realize that a Dom is not there to please her or to make her every fantasy a reality. She needs to have a true desire to serve and to gain the approval of a sincere man who she can respect and trust. She needs to be a giver, not a taker. That in giving she will also recieve. She needs to understand that real life service involves real work and submission needs to be firmly rooted in that reality.
As a submissive, she should gain pleasure from pleasing her Dominant. She should not be one to do something merely for the show of it or in order to get attention from others. Don't be a drama queen. Don't be an attention-seeking black hole that will drain me of life. Have the ability to integrate a power-exchange relationship with vanilla life.
I want a submissive flexible in her preferences.
"Okay, I don't mean to come across like I am looking for a perfect person or anything. I'm not!!! I will consider training or advising any that genuinely want assistance or advice. I don't want you to think I'm just going to lay down a bunch of demands without expecting to give, either."
What I have to offer:
I have much to offer and much to bring to a relationship. I am a good listener and do not expect my girl to be invulnerable to what happens in real life. I am nurturing and stabilizing, functioning as a friend as well as a dominant. With patience I guide and teach my submissive to be everything she can be! I am usually active in my local community.
My feelings on negotiation and the "Safe Sane Consensual" creedo are somewhat non-mainstream. By no stretch of the imagination could they be called Politically Correct. I am turned off by over-negotiation and am more comfortable with the phrase "Risk Aware".
Certified:
Eclectic Electric Certified Master Violet Wand Instructor.
Eclectic Electric Certified Violet Wand Demonstrator.
Qualified Hypnotist
Absolutely no kids (minors).
Absolutely no activity with non-consenting persons.
Absolutely no scat.
No play that results in or puts anyone at risk of serious bodily harm.
No play that requires a trip to casualty.
No play that results in the need to be on long term medication.
No broken bones, amputations and internal injuries.
The vanilla me:
I am opinionated, independent, flexible and emotionally stable.
I don't have much emotional baggage and have a healthy attitude about what I do carry around with me.
I am well traveled and my life has been extremely interesting and rich in experience thus far.
I can size up an atmosphere quickly and fit in just about anywhere.
I am extremely flexible, adaptable and am an incorrigible optimist.
I base my value system on logic and empathy.
I have a good head on my shoulders and am good at solving problems.
There is no place for religion in my life, but I never forget the human component and am an extremely spiritual man.
My basic tenant in dealing with others is to treat them the way I would want to be treated.
I have an extremely dry and sharp sense of humor. What would life be without laughter?
There is always more to discover and learn. Want to know more ?
I guess you will just need to find out for yourself.
Should you be interested in anything on these pages but want further information then please feel free to contact me. I am very approachable and I am prepared to answer your enquiries in an open and honest way, assisting where I can. I enjoy meeting and sharing with people so don't be shy. Remember, we were all new to this lifestyle at some time and all of us are still exploring ourselves as we travel our own path.
Be well, be safe and enjoy.
Lex Adams